Desires - Root Cause of All Emotional Deficiencies
Why is there discontentment with the rise of desires?
The fulfillment of the desires is dependent on multiple factors which are not in our control. People are trying hard to control others, situation, future, and nature so that they can be happy after their desire is met. The more they try to control, the more their mind goes out of control (that is mind becomes peaceless). Does it make sense to even put effort in controlling things that we know are beyond our control? Yet we keep trying by creating desires like, 'people should behave nicely, weather should not be too warm, traffic should be light, my body should be beautiful and healthy'.
It is also important to check the intensity of the happiness and the duration it lasts. A happiness that is achieved by using the support of objects (food, gadgets, materialism, etc) or people, does not give us real and lasting happiness. It only gives us momentary pleasure and that does not satisfy someone who wants to experience real joy. Hence we immediately start wishing for more things as we do not know any other method to keep ourselves happy. One desire leads to many other desires and yet we only become dependent but not happy. Isn't that an irony? Or is it our ignorance?
How can one live without any desires?
What are the side effects of having selfish desires?
The biggest side effect of selfish desires is that it leads to all kinds of emotional deficiencies. Few other side effects:
- Limited desires makes us work extra hard and do not gives us the attainment of being content. We might get called successful by others because of achieving name, fame, and wealth. Externally successful, but internally we feel empty, like a failure. The proof of internal success is contentment, but a person with many desires feels the opposite, greedy (wants more).
- Selfish desires drive us in many directions and cause us to lose focus. One day our heart desires something, and the next moment it wants something else.
- A person driven by so many expectations feels emotionally exhausted. Slowly, a feeling of hopelessness arises in them.
- Many type of addictions (objects and habits) and obsessions (people) develop in a person who relies on external world to keep themselves happy
Which spiritual vitamins will finish the emotional deficiency of limited desires?
A selfless desire that can finish all selfish desires
We, human beings, need goals, objectives, or desires to move forward. These goals help in bringing focus, are key to emerging our higher potential, and achieving self progress. I received a divine insight to keep only one angelic and empowering desire at Brahma Kumaris. Many of my selfish, limited, and impure desires have magically been burnt by keeping the flame of this one desire burning in my heart. I am confident that one day even the last traces of impure desires will be burnt when the intensity of this desire reaches its peak. I am so looking forward to that day. The noble desire is to keep ourselves engaged in fulfilling others’ pure desires, and this wish automatically enables every desire of ours to get fulfilled by the Supreme being as per the laws of the universe. The pure desire can be practically implemented when we keep an intent of giving a blessing (may this person be peaceful, happy, etc) to every person we meet, encourage and appreciate others through our kind words, and do everything to cooperate in others tasks. My experience is that whenever I have kept myself busy in this task, I have felt super sensuous joy that cannot be described in words. I highly recommend to experiment with this angelic desire, and see if your life gets filled with unlimited bliss.
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